God not only loves us, but He also loves the man that He has for us. Therefore , we must ask ourselves, “Are we the virtuous women that our future mates will thank God for bringing into their lives?” If marriage is your desire, “What are you doing to prepare yourself for this awesome responsibility?” Even Esther had to prepare to meet the King.
If there is a heart connection between you and the one that God has [for you ], then let God’s man initiate the pursuit. If you are both praying to the [same] God asking Him to fulfill your desire for a mate, then, trust in God for the answer. Let God put His choice in your heart.
Gillam, Mary (2013-06-26). Women Stop the Chase: Let God’s Man Find You (Proverbs 18:22) (p. 15). Mary M. Gillam, Literary Enterprise, LLC. Kindle Edition.
The above excerpts are taken from Dr. Mary M. Gillam’s book; Women Stop The Chase: Let God’s Man Find You. I just finished reading the book and it is an insightful, helpful and affirming read. I highly recommend it to my Sisters In Christ who are praying to God for a godly husband. It will surely get you thinking, evaluating and eager to improve your own spiritual life as you wait on God to bless you with a godly mate.
Gillam, Mary (2013-06-26). Women Stop the Chase: Let God’s Man Find You (Proverbs 18:22) (p. 50). Mary M. Gillam, Literary Enterprise, LLC. Kindle Edition.